True story, almost two years ago I actually called my neighbor and asked if she could spare the remainder of the sugar that my recipe called for, as I was making a cake for my co-worker's birthday the next day. It does seem kind of silly in retrospect, but I just needed a little, and I remember it wasn't too late at night (8:30ish?) but because I thought I had all of the ingredients I was literally in the middle of making the cake and simply didn't feel like getting into my car and running to the store. Also I'm guessing that I was likely in some not-so-stylish version of my home comfies (read: stretchy pants). My neighbor was probably a little surprised by the request, but was only more than happy to oblige. That plus I returned her plastic container a couple days later with a teeny little flowering potted plant in it (remind you of the bundt cake scene in My Big Fat Greek Wedding?? LOL) and it was a pleasant neighborly interaction all the way around. When I first moved in I was a single gal and her husband had given me both of their cell phone numbers, in the years past she has watered my flowers when I was out of town, and he once helped fix my garage door.
Also a couple months back one Saturday morning I realized that the car pulling out behind me followed me throughout the short drive to the yoga studio, and after class I introduced myself to the driver who said that he and his wife (who he specifically mentioned was Korean, huh?? :) and daughter had recently moved in across the street from us, and now when we see them out for a walk, it's an easy hello.
I'm not going to pretend that I'm always in the mood to engage in neighborly chit-chat, but there's probably no doubt that befriending people in your close environments can make all difference. In the winter it can be hard to muster up much more than a friendly wave, but as soon as the warm weather hits, I'm going to be sure to introduce myself to our new neighbors!
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